Reverse Lap Seat
One partner sits on a sturdy armless chair or the edge of the bed, and the other sits on their lap facing away, feet on the floor.
How it feels
Relaxed and cuddly. The seated partner can hug from behind and kiss the neck and shoulders, while the partner on the lap sets the pace.
Comfort tips
- Choose a stable seat at a height where the partner on top can keep their feet flat on the floor.
- The partner on the lap can rest their hands on the other's knees for balance.
- Lean back together now and then for a slower, closer moment.
Talk about it
Because you face the same way, talk or whisper more than usual so you both know it feels good.
Take care
- Never use a chair that rolls, wobbles or swivels.
Always go at a pace that feels good for both of you, and stop if anything hurts. This guide is educational and not a substitute for medical advice.