The Butterfly

One partner lies back near the edge of a bed or table with their legs raised and supported by the partner standing in front of them. It needs a stable surface at the right height.

How it feels

Playful and different, with lots of eye contact.

Comfort tips

• Choose a sturdy surface at roughly hip height for the standing partner.
• The partner lying back can rest their legs on the other's shoulders or arms, whichever is more comfortable.

Talk about it

Agree on a quick word for 'let's lower my legs' in case of cramp or strain.

Take care

• Not ideal for anyone with hip or lower-back problems.
• Lower the legs slowly when you finish to avoid strain.